"It is a lot and I, I wasn't sure that it was what I needed to do until recently." He'd spent a long time thinking about whether or not he should just give his time to the temple and do some repairs instead. "...and, whatever you decide, it's your choice. Even so, I don't think that much has changed. This is an unusual situation for anyone; fidelity is expected."

"Because of the type of rite, they're pretty sure there'll be a child at the end of it, but I'll never meet her."